I haven't friended you, but I really hated calling you a dweeb as I have seen no signs of you being such. Talk about a lack of real life though, I only know about your missing gay and your fandom by looking at someone elses friends postings. I don't even have an online life of my own!!! I don't know what the common courtesy rules are on LJ, but I've never friended anyone without asking first.

By the way your posts are quite interesting and I have greatly enjoyed your songs.