ext_2803 ([identity profile] jlh.livejournal.com) wrote in [personal profile] ivyblossom 2005-03-05 09:22 pm (UTC)

Well, first, I'll say that I always thought good sex was just the continuation of a conversation.

I think it depends on what you mean by a good dancer. I would say that all those cues you are looking for in a conversation you can see in dance, particularly old-fashioned partner dancing. Are they looking at you, paying attention to you, dancing with you? One can be a selfish dance partner just as one can be a selfish conversation partner.

Dance also reveals a comfort with your body, an understanding of space and where you are vs. the other person, that I think does carry over into the bedroom. So it isn't the moves themselves; it's more what they mean, what they can reveal. Make sense?

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