What. WHAT?? Of all people, shouldn't they be understanding and not be so bloody hypocritical? Pot, kettle, black. Oh my God, I'm so annoyed on your behalf! Love is love, end of. It must be so hurtful, especially from people you considered to be good friends :( I'm really sorry - heterophobia is no better than homophobia, and I'm just staggered that they don't see that.