Teaching-old-lady opportunity aside, it sounds like you got something out of it yourself. I mean, being so concerned about it afterwards shows exactly what the 'same-sex thing' produces - people of good conscience and character. What a crappy thing to happen, though. It's just another of those rocky roads to self-awareness, I guess :p (You live in London ON, don't you? Sounds like old Asian prune should get together with my parents.) In any case, I hope you're feeling better about it all today :)