Oh, Ivy. *hugs* One of my closest friends here also identified as a lesbian as long as I knew her up until she fell in love with someone who happened to be a man, and so I can totally understand how it happens, and I'm sad that people are being dickish about it. I guess I can understand it on a personal level in a way; I still identify as queer -- leaning towards pansexual, if I must have a more specific label -- and yet because I'm married to a man, the assumption tends to be that I'm heterosexual. (When of course I'm actually just Veelasexual.)
Your sexual preferences and their potential to change over time in no way negate your awesomeness.
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Date: 2008-07-16 02:22 pm (UTC)Your sexual preferences and their potential to change over time in no way negate your awesomeness.